{"id":51014,"date":"2025-05-15T16:20:01","date_gmt":"2025-05-15T13:20:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tdv.org\/tr-TR\/?p=51014"},"modified":"2025-05-16T15:25:29","modified_gmt":"2025-05-16T12:25:29","slug":"kokleri-saglam-bir-aile-icin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tdv.org\/tr-TR\/kokleri-saglam-bir-aile-icin\/","title":{"rendered":"K\u00f6kleri Sa\u011flam Bir Aile \u0130\u00e7in"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Canan Cehri AKYOL<\/em><br \/>\n<em>Diyanet \u0130\u015fleri Uzman\u0131<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Aile, iki ayr\u0131 toprakta filizlenen ve b\u00fcy\u00fcyen iki fidan\u0131n kad\u0131n ve erke\u011fin, birlikte olgunla\u015farak huzur bulup huzur veren kocaman bir g\u00f6lge in\u015fa etmesidir. \u0130ki ayr\u0131 topra\u011f\u0131n, suyun ve havan\u0131n meyvesi olan, bamba\u015fka iki d\u00fcnyay\u0131 bir k\u0131larak zenginle\u015fen bir kad\u0131n ve erke\u011fin kurdu\u011fu yuvad\u0131r. Aileyi kurmak \u00e7o\u011funlukla kolayken ayakta tutmak, emek ve fedak\u00e2rl\u0131k isteyen uzun soluklu bir yolculuktur. Bu yolculu\u011fun, Y\u00fcce Rabb\u2019imizin buyurdu\u011fu gibi aile fertlerine saadet ve huzur veren (R\u00fbm, 30\/21) bir s\u00fcre\u00e7 olmas\u0131 da \u015fu \u00fc\u00e7 ilkenin hayata ge\u00e7irilmesine ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r: Kad\u0131n ve erke\u011fin birbirlerinin sorumluluklar\u0131n\u0131 payla\u015fmalar\u0131, hayat\u0131n her imtihan\u0131nda birbirlerine destek olmalar\u0131 ve birbirlerinin g\u00fcndemini takip etmeleri\u2026 Bu durumun en g\u00fczel \u00f6rne\u011fine de Res\u00fblullah ile \u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme\u2019nin evlili\u011finde \u015fahit oluruz. Aile fertlerine kar\u015f\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 \u00fcmmetine pusula olan Res\u00fblullah\u2026 Fedak\u00e2rl\u0131kla yo\u011frulmu\u015f cesur duru\u015fuyla, keskin zek\u00e2s\u0131, anlay\u0131\u015f ve kabiliyeti ile ona yol arkada\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 yapan \u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme\u2026<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Kabilesi Mahz\u00fbmo\u011fullar\u0131n\u0131n, \u0130slam\u2019a davetinde kilit rol\u00fc oynayan, \u0130slam tarihinin hay\u0131rlara \u00f6nc\u00fc, nesillere \u00f6rnek ismi \u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme, ilk evlili\u011fini Eb\u00fb Seleme ile ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirir. Bu yuvada Seleme, \u00d6mer, D\u00fcrre ve Zeynep d\u00fcnyaya gelir. (\u0130bn Sad, Tabak\u00e2t, 10\/45-46) \u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme, e\u015fi Eb\u00fb Seleme Uhud Gazvesi\u2019nde ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 yara nedeniyle vefat edince \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcden g\u00fcnlerce a\u011flar. G\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fcn \u015fifa bulmas\u0131 i\u00e7in Peygamberimizden \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fi, \u201cBiz \u015f\u00fcphesiz Allah\u2019a aidiz ve \u015f\u00fcphesiz O\u2019na d\u00f6nece\u011fiz. Allah\u2019\u0131m! Musibetimin ecrini bana ver, bana kaybetti\u011fimden daha hay\u0131rl\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 ver!\u201d (M\u00fcslim, Cen\u00e2iz, 3) duas\u0131n\u0131 okur. Ama \u201cEb\u00fb Seleme\u2019den daha hay\u0131rl\u0131s\u0131 kim olabilir ki?\u201d diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmekten kendini alamaz. (Muvatta\u2019, Cen\u00e2iz, 14) Pek \u00e7ok evlenme teklifi alsa da hi\u00e7birini kabul etmez. Bir s\u00fcre sonra Res\u00fblullah, \u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme\u2019ye evlenme teklifini iletir. Hz. Peygamber\u2019in bu teklifinde hem cefak\u00e2r bir dul han\u0131m\u0131n ve evlatlar\u0131n\u0131n korunmaya muhta\u00e7 olmas\u0131 hem de Mahz\u00fbmo\u011fullar\u0131n\u0131n \u0130slam\u2019a \u0131s\u0131nmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flama iste\u011fi etkili olmu\u015ftur. Bu teklif \u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme i\u00e7in \u00e7ok k\u0131ymetli olsa da ilk ba\u015fta kabul edemez. Ya\u015fl\u0131 ve k\u0131skan\u00e7 bir kad\u0131n oldu\u011funu, \u00e7ok say\u0131da \u00e7ocu\u011fu bulundu\u011funu Hz. Peygamber\u2019e iletir. Hz. Peygamber de \u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme\u2019ye kendisinin daha ya\u015fl\u0131 oldu\u011funu, k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 gidermesi i\u00e7in Allah\u2019a dua edece\u011fini, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na da sahip \u00e7\u0131kaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yler. B\u00f6ylece bereketli bir ailenin temelleri at\u0131l\u0131r. (Ahmed b. Hanbel, M\u00fcsned, IV, 27-28; M\u00fcslim, Cen\u00e2iz, 3, 4)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">En kritik d\u00f6neme\u00e7lerde birbirini dinleyip anlaman\u0131n e\u015fler aras\u0131nda kuvvetli ba\u011flar olu\u015fturdu\u011funu, birbirine maddi-manevi destek olman\u0131n da bu ba\u011flar\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7lendirdi\u011fini \u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme\u2019nin Hudeybiye\u2019deki tavr\u0131ndan \u00f6\u011freniriz. Zira bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te ya\u015fanan bir kriz an\u0131nda \u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme, tarihe kay\u0131t d\u00fc\u015fecek g\u00fczel bir \u00f6rnek sergilemi\u015ftir. Sevgili Peygamberimizi dikkatli bir \u015fekilde dinlemi\u015f, olaylar\u0131n sebebini selim bir ak\u0131lla analiz etmi\u015f ve hikmetli tavsiyesiyle krizin \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmesine katk\u0131 sa\u011flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u015e\u00f6yle ki hicretten alt\u0131 y\u0131l sonra M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar, K\u00e2be\u2019yi ve Mekke\u2019yi ziyaret etmek i\u00e7in yola \u00e7\u0131karlar. Umre niyetiyle ihramlar\u0131n\u0131 giyip yanlar\u0131na kurbanlar\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131rlar. Bu yolculukta \u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme de Peygamberimize e\u015flik eder. Hudeybiye mevkisinde konaklamaya karar verirler. Durumdan rahats\u0131z olan Mekkeliler, M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar\u0131n \u00fczerine asker\u00ee birlik g\u00f6nderirler. Peygamberimiz ilk g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeden sonra Hz. Osman\u2019\u0131 Kurey\u015f\u2019e el\u00e7i olarak g\u00f6nderir. Sadece K\u00e2be\u2019yi ziyaret etmek ve umre yapmak niyetinde olduklar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6ylemesini ister. Ancak Mekkeliler Hz. Osman\u2019\u0131 hapsederler. Bu durum, M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlara Hz. Osman\u2019\u0131n \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fc \u015feklinde ula\u015f\u0131nca Peygamberimiz m\u00fc\u015friklerle sava\u015fmak \u00fczere ashab\u0131ndan biat al\u0131r. M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar\u0131n birlik ve beraberli\u011finden g\u00f6zleri korkan m\u00fc\u015frikler ise Hz. Osman\u2019\u0131 serbest b\u0131rak\u0131rlar. Ard\u0131ndan bar\u0131\u015f niyetiyle Peygamberimize bir heyet g\u00f6nderirler. M\u00fczakerenin ard\u0131ndan Hudeybiye Bar\u0131\u015f Antla\u015fmas\u0131 imzalan\u0131r. Ancak antla\u015fma maddeleri, M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar\u0131 hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na u\u011frat\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc antla\u015fmaya eklenen pek \u00e7ok a\u011f\u0131r \u015fart, M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar\u0131n aleyhine gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnmektedir. Ancak Allah\u2019\u0131n onlar\u0131 ziyana u\u011fratmayaca\u011f\u0131na g\u00fcvenen Hz. Peygamber, sahabeden kurbanlar\u0131n\u0131 kesmelerini, t\u0131ra\u015f olarak ihramdan \u00e7\u0131kmalar\u0131n\u0131 ister. Hz. Peygamber, emrini \u00fc\u00e7 kez tekrar eder. Ancak sahabe \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcden Hz. Peygamber\u2019in emrini yerine getiremez. Onlar\u0131 bu h\u00e2lde g\u00f6rmekten b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc duyan Peygamberimiz, olanlar\u0131 \u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme\u2019ye anlat\u0131r. O da bu kritik s\u00fcre\u00e7te Peygamberimize destek olup onu sakinle\u015ftirir. Bu s\u00fcrecin g\u00fczelce a\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 i\u00e7in \u015fu \u00f6neriyi sunar: Peygamberimize, kurban\u0131n\u0131 kesip t\u0131ra\u015f olmas\u0131n\u0131, bunu g\u00f6ren ashab\u0131n da ayn\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yler. Onun isabetli tavsiyesiyle kriz a\u015f\u0131l\u0131r. Ashap, Peygamberimizin kurban kesip tra\u015f oldu\u011funu g\u00f6r\u00fcnce onun yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 hemen uygular. \u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme, bu olaydaki tutumuyla kritik d\u00f6neme\u00e7lerde e\u015flerin birbirine deste\u011finin ne g\u00fczel bereketlere vesile olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6sterir.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Aile oca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ayakta tutabilmek; d\u00fcnya hayat\u0131n\u0131n t\u00fcm ini\u015f-\u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015flar\u0131nda \u201cbir\u201d olmaya, madden ve manen beraber olmaya ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. T\u0131pk\u0131 hanenin i\u00e7inde ve d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda Hz. Peygamber ile tek y\u00fcrek olan \u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme annemiz gibi\u2026 Zira \u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme, Hz. Peygamber\u2019in hayat\u0131n\u0131n t\u00fcm yo\u011funluk ve s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131na \u015fahitlik etmi\u015f, birlikte seyahat etmi\u015f, gazvelere kat\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Tebli\u011f ve davet s\u00fcrecindeki s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 Peygamberimizle birlikte g\u00f6\u011f\u00fcslemi\u015f, onun g\u00fcndeminden uzak kalmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Hudeybiye Seferi, Ben\u00ee Mustalik Gazvesi, Hayber Ku\u015fatmas\u0131, Mekke\u2019nin Fethi gibi pek \u00e7ok sefere kat\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. (Nihal \u015eahin Utku, \u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme, D\u0130B Yay. s.69) Sava\u015f cephesinde ya\u015fanabilecek her \u00e7e\u015fit zorluk ve tehlikeye cesaretle g\u00f6\u011f\u00fcs germi\u015ftir. Hz. Peygamber\u2019in \u0130slam\u2019a davette kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 zorluklar\u0131 onunla birlikte ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f, kabilesi Mahzumo\u011fullar\u0131ndan pek \u00e7ok ki\u015finin M\u00fcsl\u00fcman olmas\u0131na vesile olmu\u015ftur. \u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme\u2019nin Hz. Peygamber\u2019in hayat\u0131na olan \u015fahitli\u011finin en \u00f6nemli i\u015faretlerinden biri de rivayet etti\u011fi 378 hadistir. (D\u0130A, \u201c\u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme\u201d, 42\/328-330) \u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme\u2019nin ilgi ve alakas\u0131, Hz. Peygamber\u2019le kurduklar\u0131 m\u00fcbarek hanedeki bu payla\u015f\u0131m \u00f6rne\u011fi tarihe \u00e2deta \u015fu kayd\u0131 d\u00fc\u015fer: Ailenin iki dinami\u011fi olan kad\u0131n ve erkek birbirlerinin hayat ser\u00fcvenine, yolu beraber ad\u0131mlayacak kadar \u015fahit ve ortak olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Aksi bir tablo yani kad\u0131n ve erke\u011fin ayr\u0131 d\u00fcnyalarda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131, ayr\u0131 g\u00fcndemleri tek ba\u015f\u0131na ba\u015flat\u0131p bitirdi\u011fi bir s\u00fcrecin sonucu, birbirinden uzakla\u015fma, kopma ve savrulmad\u0131r. Y\u0131llarca ortak bir hanede biz olamamak, birbirinin g\u00f6nl\u00fcne \u015fahit olamamak aileyi y\u0131kan en ac\u0131 tecr\u00fcbelerden biri de\u011fil midir?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme ve Peygamberimizin saadetli hanesinde \u015fahit oldu\u011fumuz ileti\u015fim dili sevgi, merhamet ve adalet ekseninde d\u00f6nen bir aile, hem aile fertlerine hem de \u00e7evresine bereket vesilesi olur. T\u0131pk\u0131 \u00d6mer b. Eb\u00ee Seleme gibi\u2026 Bir yetim olarak b\u00fcy\u00fck zorluklarla ba\u015flayan hayat\u0131, Res\u00fblullah\u2019\u0131n saadet hanesinin bir par\u00e7as\u0131 olmas\u0131yla ondan b\u00fcy\u00fck bir sevgi ve alaka g\u00f6rmesiyle de\u011fi\u015fmi\u015ftir. Res\u00fblullah\u2019\u0131n terbiyesinde yeti\u015fmi\u015f, onun (s.a.s.) ahlak\u0131na \u015fahit olmu\u015ftur. Mesela yemek yerken elini taba\u011f\u0131n her taraf\u0131nda gezdiren \u00d6mer\u2019e Res\u00fbllulah, \u201cYavrum, besmele \u00e7ek, sa\u011f elinle ve \u00f6n\u00fcnden ye!\u201d (Buhari, Et\u2019\u0131me, 2) s\u00f6zleriyle yemek adab\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretmi\u015ftir. \u00d6mer b. Eb\u00ee Seleme, ya\u015f\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck olsa da bu m\u00fcbarek aileye \u015fahitli\u011fiyle namaz, yeme-i\u00e7me, oru\u00e7 ve aile hayat\u0131 gibi konularda hadis rivayet ederek \u00fcmmete bereket vesilesi olmu\u015ftur. Yine \u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme\u2019nin Hz. Peygamber\u2019le evlendi\u011fi s\u0131rada hen\u00fcz bebek olan Zeynep, bu m\u00fcbarek hanenin oca\u011f\u0131nda pi\u015ferek ilim sahibi \u00f6nemli bir kad\u0131n sahabi olmu\u015f, tarih sahnesine anlaml\u0131 ve g\u00fczel bir \u00f6rnek b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00d6yleyse aileyi ayakta tutan esaslara hassasiyet g\u00f6stermek ve her bir hane ferdinin temennisini en g\u00fczel \u015fekilde ifade eden \u015fu ayeti bol bol zikretmek gerek: \u201cEy Rabb\u2019imiz! E\u015flerimizi ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 bize g\u00f6z ayd\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 k\u0131l ve bizi Allah\u2019a kar\u015f\u0131 gelmekten sak\u0131nanlara \u00f6nder eyle.\u201d (Furk\u00e2n, 25\/74)<\/p>\n<p>Kaynak: Diyanet Aile Dergisi<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Canan Cehri AKYOL Diyanet \u0130\u015fleri Uzman\u0131 Aile, iki ayr\u0131 toprakta filizlenen ve b\u00fcy\u00fcyen iki fidan\u0131n kad\u0131n ve erke\u011fin, birlikte olgunla\u015farak huzur bulup huzur veren kocaman bir g\u00f6lge in\u015fa etmesidir. \u0130ki&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":8,"featured_media":51012,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2412],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-51014","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-uluslararasi-aile-fuari-makaleler"},"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>K\u00f6kleri Sa\u011flam Bir Aile \u0130\u00e7in<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Aile, iki ayr\u0131 toprakta filizlenen ve b\u00fcy\u00fcyen iki fidan\u0131n kad\u0131n ve erke\u011fin, birlikte olgunla\u015farak huzur bulup huzur veren kocaman bir g\u00f6lge in\u015fa etmesidir. \u0130ki ayr\u0131 topra\u011f\u0131n, suyun ve havan\u0131n meyvesi olan, bamba\u015fka iki d\u00fcnyay\u0131 bir k\u0131larak zenginle\u015fen bir kad\u0131n ve erke\u011fin kurdu\u011fu yuvad\u0131r. 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